Tuesday, 9 July 2013

My Collection of toys!

So as some of you will know, I test and review toys for a hobby. This means I have a pretty extensive toy collection. It wasn't till I had put them away I remembered that I had forgotten a few! Will a collection that size it was bound to happen!

This isn't including the books and lingerie that I have tested and reviewed.

I'm rather proud of my collection!

A few close ups!

Saturday, 22 June 2013

Review Idol - Round 1 - Rocks Off Bullet

Get your Rocks Off! The original Rocks Off 80mm bullet is a must have for every toy box. Like the name suggests it is only 80 mm long but don't be put off by its small size after all the best things come in small packages! Shaped just like a bullet, it really suits its name! This is my favourite bullet and I have a few of these, so versatile and for the size, it really is a powerful little bullet. At a RRP of around £10 you really can't go wrong which is why I have more than one.

The RO-80mm bullet comes in what I describe as a little see through test tube with a lid, it fits perfectly and is ideal for storage when you aren't using it. The bullet comes with a 'N' sized battery which really does last for ages! Just unscrew and remove the little cardboard disc and screw back on. To turn on the bullet all you have to do is push the button on the bottom and press it again to turn it off.

The RO-80mm bullet is such a versatile little toy. I have found so many uses and it never gets boring finding new ones! Its sleek design means you can use the tip against your clitoris or lay it length ways for a different sensation. It can be used on male or female nipples. It is a great toy to use with some orgasm balm. Or the female can use it against her cheek while giving her partner oral sex or rest it under his balls for a different sensation. A guy can also use it on his partner during oral. During PIV sex it is a great little toy as it doesn't get in the way, only enhances things! It is also a great little toy to use when masturbating. The possibilities are endless! It is a great couples or singles toy.

The power you get with this little beauty for the size and the size of the battery really is quite something. I highly recommend that if you don't have one of these to buy at least one and find out for yourself. If you are very sensitive then you may want to tie a ribbon around it to 'cushion' it lightly, also satin ribbons are a win for sensation play! It isn't a Wand and will never have the power of a Wand but this little beauty kicks ass! Noise wise the bullet buzzes! It isn't so loud that it puts you off but it isn't silent either, some music or the TV on as background noise should drown it out.

It is super easy to clean as it is waterproof. A few squirts of some sex toy cleaner or some soap and hot water then dry it off. Easy to store in your bedside or knicker drawer, toy box, handbag, or one in each!

How I rate the RO-80mm bullet.
Ease of use 5/5 Design 5/5 Quietness 2.5/5 Strength of vibrations 4/5 Over all 4/5

I would like to thank Voluptasse for sending me the RO-80mm to review. If you enjoyed this review I would like to ask you to please leave the comment 'Like' to cast your vote but it won't count unless you place your vote here http://voluptasse.blogspot.co.uk/2013/06/review-idol.html
Thank you!

Thursday, 21 February 2013

Home Alone

Been single now for 2 years. 2 years ago my heart was smashed into a million pieces. The one I thought I would grow old with hurt me more than anyone ever had before. I thought when I was first single that I would try and see if I could be with anyone else, unlucky for me he was the stalker kind. I put stop to that.....eventually.

I decided that I just needed some time being single, to heal properly and to just look after me. I'm glad I did, it was just what I needed. Then my ex husband reared his ugly head and threatened me. That was the last straw, I couldn't take it. My therapy started not long after. I thought it would be best to still stay single but I did go on the odd date but they never came to anything and that is ok.

I have come along such a long way and in some twisted way, my heart being broken somehow led me to here. Why I don't know.

Recently my views have changed. I have had my fair share of guys asking me if I want to 'just have some fun' but I'm sorry, I'm better than that. Not that I see anything wrong with people who just want a bit of fun. I had that phase in my life but it isn't what I want now. I want to be important enough to be the only one but is that too much to ask for? Maybe it is and maybe I will be home alone for years to come. In saying that I don't want some serious relationship either. Somewhere in between would be nice.

So what really is my post about. I don't have a clue, I'm just letting the mess in my head come out in words so I can try make some sense of it all.

In some ways I'm starting to feel much stronger in myself and I have more respect for myself than I ever have. I'm not quite as strong as the person everyone else sees but I am getting there, slowly but surely.

I never thought I would be able to feel anything for another human being. I didn't want to feel anything for anyone because that would mean my heart was at risk of being broken again. I feel like I have only just managed to hold it together and it can't take any more hurt or pain. So what happens when Minxy eventually gets a crush on someone. She keeps it to herself, too scared of getting hurt.....again :( I could tell him that I like him but I guess I'm just scared. If you were to draw the person I described was my ideal man, then it would be him. He just floats my boat in every way. So handsome and my god the most amazing eyes I have ever seen. Just now we are very new friends and I don't want to jeopardise that with him thinking I'm some crazy woman! So much for being a stronger woman eh? The old, old Minxy would have at least let him know so he could decide for himself but I don't think I'm ready for any sort of rejection right now. So for now I will sit home alone till the next time we are at the same day/night out and can casually bump into him. If there is a god, he could just let him know I like him and save me a whole load of pain!

Why me eh? Haven't I been through enough? Time Minxy got given a break. I just hope that I haven't had my little slice of happiness.

Sunday, 3 February 2013

Rope Play

I LOVE being a rope bunny and for the last year I have had some amazing riggers tie me. I also don't mind those new to rope, use me to practice on. How will they get good if they don't practice?

I decided this year that I wanted to learn to tie. Not thinking I could tie more than my shoe laces, I decided to try and who knew that Minxy could! Playing about with my new pink rope I was impressed with this gorgeous ankle wrap. The possibilities with this could be endless for a gorgeous Sinful Sunday.........

Rope and photos by me.

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Wednesday, 19 December 2012

50 Shades of a Minx

Ever wanted to know some random facts about me. Here are 50 random fact you may or may not know about me.

1) I am an ex smoker. (15 months now).

2) I have suffered on and off with depression since I was 18.

3) I have had 1 serious suicide attempt and very lucky to be here.

4) I drink too much tea. Splash of milk and between 1.5 and 2 teaspoons of sugar.

5) I have Hypermobility syndrome.

6) My favourite colour is red.

7) I prefer to read than watch a film.

8) I have a very eclectic taste in music and will listen to just about anything depending on my mood.

9) I played the bagpipes from the age of 8 - 14.

10) I have a dog and a snake.

11) I love Tequila.

12) I have Ornithophobia (fear of birds).

13) I have b12 injections once every 12 weeks, on them for life. Would die without them.

14) I was married at the age of 21.

15) I was bulimic for around 9-10 years.

16) I bought my first sex toy about 5 and a half years ago. Made up for it now!

17) I test and review sex toys and lingerie.

18) I am a crafter and made my own cards and cross stitch.

19) I have been hit twice by a car. At 14 and 18. Take part blame for the 1st time.

20) I have 7 tattoos and have more planned.

21) I have (including my ears) 14 piercings.

22) I have been divorced for nearly 2 years.

23) I have moved around 20 times.

24) I am supposed to wear my glasses all the time because of astigmatism.

25) Anything I have learned to do with a computer has been self taught.

26) I am a qualified Chef.

27) I don't like blood. Hard limit for me.

28) I have had 3 operations.

29) I hate peanut butter, tuna and beef crisps.

30) I'm not allowed to give blood (see no. 13)

31) I went to my 1st Fetish club in January of this year.

32) I have dabbled in fire play and really want to do it more!

33) I have 1 child and want no more.

34) My son was born on friday the 13th and the last 3 numbers on his hospital tag 666!

35) I have an allergy to Penicillin and the sap between the skin and fruit of a Mango!

36) I got a puppy for my Christmas when I was 8. Best present ever!

37) Favourite famous person I have met is Robert Carlyle.

38) Scottish film Restless Natives, I have met the whole cast, sat on the motorbike and got to try the masks on! I lived where part of it was filmed. http://uk.imdb.com/title/tt0089904/

39) I'm not scared of dying.

40) I sometimes use a walking stick.

41) I have a proper stocking fetish. Even just thinking about them gets me going!

42) I don't wear make-up every day.

43) I am a Gemini.

44) I wear a size 5 shoe.

45) There is a space of about 8 years where there are no photos of me.

46) I am a terrible singer.

47) I was anally raped by my ex husband.

48) I will never marry ever again.

49) I don't wear underwear every day.

50) I don't have a middle name.

Sunday, 9 December 2012

Post Party Play

And the other side!
Got some criss cross cane marks up my arm too. Not sure if my back or bum is bruised but if it is it sure doesn't feel the way the top of my legs do. I love the ache of the morning after the night before. Awesome night last night, too much fun to mention! Slight problem though, wearing a very short, Angel costume next week! Will my bruises heal in time! Sinful Sunday Join in and see who else is having a Sinful Sunday

Sunday, 2 December 2012

Dedicated to K. Sinful and Sexy

So not long ago it was Breast Cancer Awareness month and we had lots of lovely boobie photos. I have been rather generous with my boobie pics for Sinful Sunday of late and was going to do something different but recently my friend K told me that she has breast cancer. So this photo I dedicate to her! So for K, Sinful and Sexy!
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